The Complete PUA Glossary
Every term you need to dominate the field. No fluff, no spelling out – raw Game language from a 200+ BC vet.
| Abbreviation | English | Description |
|---|---|---|
| 3s Rule | 3-Second Rule | Approach any HB within 3 seconds of eye contact. Crushes AA, prevents hesitation. |
| AFC | Average Frustrated Chump | Beta simp who supplicates, orbits, gets LJBF’d. No attraction game. |
| Affirmations | Positive Affirmations | NLP daily repeats flipping limiting beliefs. “HBs chase alphas” kills beta mindset. |
| Anchor | Anchor | Touch/stimulus tying emotional high. Arm squeeze at peak attraction = instant re-spark. |
| Approach | Approach | Initiating set interaction. Core of field work. |
| AA | Approach Anxiety | Pre-open paralysis. 3s Rule + volume kills it. |
| ASD | Anti-Slut Defense | HB’s social shield. Negs + frame control disarm. |
| Attraction | Attraction | Initial HB emotional pull. DHV/CF Phase 1 M3 Model. |
| AMOG | Alpha Male Other Guy | Rival blocking your close. DHV harder, ignore. |
| Belief | Limiting Belief | Subconscious beta block (“No HBs for me”). NLP reframe. |
| Bitch Shield | Bitch Shield | HB rudeness filter. Strong open + Neg penetrates. |
| Buying Temp | Buying Temperature | HB’s heat level. Spike with DHV for compliance. |
| Buyers Remorse | Buyer’s Remorse | Post-NC/KC flake. Weak comfort causes – Freeze Out fixes. |
| Bodylanguage | Body Language | Nonverbals signaling IOI/IOD. Mirror for rapport. |
| C&F | Cocky & Funny | DeAngelo teasing DHV. Playful value spike. |
| Cats | Cats | Game-aware HBs. Calibrate tighter. |
| Cockblock | Cockblock | Obstacle sabotaging set. Eject/reframe. |
| Cold Reading | Cold Reading | Vague statements seeming personal. DHV psychic vibe. |
| Comfort | Comfort | M3 Phase 2: C1-C3 trust build post-attraction. |
| Cocooning | Cocooning | HB ignores world, trapped in your frame. |
| DHV | Display High Value | Stories proving preselection/leadership/protector. |
| DLV | Display Low Value | Bragging/neediness killing attraction. |
| Eject | Eject | Frame-saving set exit. |
| Eskalieren | Escalate | Kino/sexual progression. |
| Flake | Flake | No-show post-NC. Comfort deficit. |
| FR | Field Report | Post-field analysis. |
| Frame | Frame | Your unbreakable reality. |
| Freeze Out | Freeze Out | Scarcity tactic for LMR/Oneitis. |
| FTOW | Fuck Ten Other Women | Abundance cure. |
| FB | Fuck Buddy | Sex-only plate. |
| HB | Hot Babe | Rateable target. |
| Hook | Hook | Set engaged, IOIs flowing. |
| Hook Point | Hook Point | Transition to attraction safe. |
| HSE | High Self Esteem | Unshakable alpha core. |
| Inkongruenz | Incongruence | Mismatched words/body. |
| Inner Game | Inner Game | Confidence foundation. |
| Investment | Investment | HB effort = loyalty. |
| IOI | Indicator of Interest | HB attraction cues. |
| IOD | Indicator of Disinterest | HB rejection. |
| Kalibrieren | Calibrate | Read/set vibe. |
| KC/FC/NC | Kiss/Full/Number Close | Progression markers. |
| Kino | Kino | Touch escalation. |
| Kongruenz | Congruence | Aligned alpha presence. |
| Lair | Lair | Community wing spot. |
| Lay | Lay | S3 success. |
| LD/HD | Low/High Drive | Sex drive mismatch. |
| LDR | Long Distance Relationship | Logistics nightmare. |
| Leaden | Lead | Pace then guide. |
| LJBF | Let’s Just Be Friends | Eject immediately. |
| LMR | Last Minute Resistance | Pre-lay shutdown. Anti-Freeze. |
| LTR | Long Term Relationship | Exclusive plate. |
| LSE | Low Self Esteem | Beta fragility. |
| MLTR | Multiple LTR | Non-mono abundance. |
| Natural | Natural | Innate gamer. |
| NC | Number Close | Phone solid. |
| Neg | Neg | Bitch Shield breaker. |
| Next | Next | Cut losses. |
| NLP | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Mind reframes. |
| Oneitis | Oneitis | Pedestal disease. |
| ONS | One Night Stand | SNL. |
| Orbiter | Orbiter | Friendzone simp. |
| Pattern | Pattern | NLP emotional steering. |
| Pacen | Pacing | Match her reality first. |
| Pivot | Pivot | Female wing. |
| Qualifying | Qualifying | HB chases approval. |
| Rapport | Rapport | Emotional bridge. |
| Reframing | Reframing | Flip shit tests. |
| Set | Set | Target + obstacles. |
| Shit Test | Shit Test | Frame probe. A&A. |
| Social Skill | Social Skills | Baseline charisma. |
| SNL | Same Night Lay | ONS full close. |
| Social Proof | Social Proof | Group preselection. |
| SC | Social Circle | Network leverage. |
| Sticking Point | Sticking Point | Game bottleneck. |
| Tease | Tease | Neg synonym. |
| Wing | Wingman | Sarge partner. |
| IOD | Indicator of Disinterest | HB rejection. |
| IOI | Indicator of Interest | HB attraction cues. |
| Calibrate | Calibrate | Read/set vibe. |
| KC/FC/NC | Kiss/Full/Number Close | Progression markers. |
| Kino | Kino | Touch escalation. |
| Congruence | Congruence | Aligned alpha presence. |
| Lair | Lair | Community wing spot. |
| Lay | Lay | S3 success. |
| LD/HD | Low/High Drive | Sex drive mismatch. |
| LDR | Long Distance Relationship | Logistics nightmare. |
| Lead | Lead | Pace then guide. |
| LJBF | Let’s Just Be Friends | Eject immediately. |
| LMR | Last Minute Resistance | Pre-lay shutdown. Anti-Freeze. |
| LSE | Low Self Esteem | Beta fragility. |
| LTR | Long Term Relationship | Exclusive plate. |
| MLTR | Multiple LTR | Non-mono abundance. |
| Natural | Natural | Innate gamer. |
| NC | Number Close | Phone solid. |
| Neg | Neg | Bitch Shield breaker. |
| Next | Next | Cut losses. |
| NLP | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Mind reframes. |
| Oneitis | Oneitis | Pedestal disease. |
| ONS | One Night Stand | SNL. |
| Orbiter | Orbiter | Friendzone simp. |
| Pacing | Pacing | Match her reality first. |
| Pattern | Pattern | NLP emotional steering. |
| Pivot | Pivot | Female wing. |
| Qualifying | Qualifying | HB chases approval. |
| Rapport | Rapport | Emotional bridge. |
| Reframing | Reframing | Flip shit tests. |
| SC | Social Circle | Network leverage. |
| Set | Set | Target + obstacles. |
| Shit Test | Shit Test | Frame probe. A&A. |
| SNL | Same Night Lay | ONS full close. |
| Social Proof | Social Proof | Group preselection. |
| Social Skills | Social Skills | Baseline charisma. |
| Sticking Point | Sticking Point | Game bottleneck. |
| Tease | Tease | Neg synonym. |
| Wing | Wingman | Sarge partner. |